When should they go back to school?
Going back to school after a death in the family can be very emotional. There isn’t really a “right” time, so it is important to encourage routine activities and structure. Consider whether your child is comfortable being away from family for a whole day. An alternative may be to have your children attend school for half days until they are comfortable being away from home the entire day.
Since the impact of a family death can not be predicted, it is important to notify school personnel about the death and share what has been helpful for your child. Grief may manifest itself at different times of the day and with different levels of intensity. It can affect your child’s ability to make decisions, as well as memory and concentration, resulting in a decline in school performance. They may become distracted and disorganized, or hyperactive and impulsive.
Grieving students need additional support. Social interaction, emotional support, and additional break time may make it easier for your child to transition back to a normal routine. Often the school’s resource department may be able to assist you with additional support and advice to assist you and your children to cope with the loss.